Romantic & Gender
We have curated from YouTube the best resources on the respective subjects to date.
- Relationship accommodations
- Kati Morton’s YouTube Channel has a wealth of content on everything from attatchment styles to boundary setting.
- Queer and Neuroqueer The Trevor Project has developed intersectional resources to support LGBTQ+ individuals with disabilities that we’d like to link in for you.
- Analytical & Personalizeable - Intimacy Communication Guide - A good resource made by an AuDHD person to support more analytical ND individuals and their partners.
- Simplified - Communication Guide A good resource for visual learners - unfortunately it cannot be personalized.
- Neurogender - A class of gender identities associated with the LGBTQIA+ where one’s neurology/neurodivergence cannot be disentangled from one’s gender identity.
ADHD
Autism
- Here is a lecture on adult Autism and romantic relationships.
- Conflict and meta-communication.
- Autigender (also Autiman, Autiwoman, Autigirl, Autiboy).
General Resources
Everyone deserves a happy and healthy love life.
- Here is a sexual health YouTube channel to answer all of your questions and help you mature into a topic that is typically very hard to discuss. As a community which is so vulnerable to sexual violence/triggers and more likely to require unconventional dating terms, it is particularly important for us to have access to resources so that we decide on our own when and what information we would like to have.
- Links to an introductory video on consent.
- Run by a non-judgmental Queer-affirming certified therapist.
- It is: comprehensive, intersectional, trauma-sensitive, trustworthy, and quality information.
- Give her feedback so that she can produce more accessible content.
- She even has videos on sexual health history!